My ramblings as a lover of adventure, all things crafty,art, life, and mostly bacon....

Wednesday, November 02, 2011

Happiness turned upside down

Its been 2 years since I left my marriage and started this journey. It feels like 2 years for sure. And for 6 years I found my happiness in my charity. And in doing charity work. I would work every day and till all hours of the night happily finding peace in giving.

Then for the last few months my happiness has gotten turned upside down.

You may think its a bad thing but its not! Instead of wanting to work all the time and get up and rush to my computer to start another day... I found that I wanted to be with my new boyfriend and spend time with him and be a part of his life.  There is something so fulfilling about having someone love you and say nice things to you and not judge you and not try to change you and let you figure out on your own how to be in a safe happy relationship.  How to be good to him while being good to yourself.  It doesn't come naturally I don't think.  I feel like for most of my life I tried to be one or the other- either good to the other person sacrificing myself. or sacrificing my relationship to stand strong and be who I am.  This strange realization that I can choose to be whoever I want, to believe whatever I want and to be happy... that happiness is in fact a choice... well, it has changed my life.




I turned my happiness inside out.  I like it.  I'm a happy people. Are you? 


Here is a picture of my happiness. and a photo  of a tag i did for a tag swap for my other book club.  I love that these clubs make me create! and they make me happy!



4 comments:

Jill Green said...

So very happy for you Elena. You deserve it.

Elena Lai Etcheverry said...

Sweet! thank you Jill.

huntla1 said...

It is good to be a "happy people"! Balance in all things is good, but maybe you were tipped too far the other way for too long, that makes this feel Oh so much better! Congratulations on finding your happiness, don't let it run off and hide again!

Christine said...

I am so happy for you Elena! I can see the happiness in your beautiful face!!!